I can not find that there has been any public offer of Parley from either side. Is that right?
To offer the enemy chance to surrender is one thing, and have that even been done?
There has been an offer of Parley?
There has
Not between Avan and Boer, each has sworn to destroy the other. There will be no parley between them, only anihilation.
The history of parley in Anuire is short, bloody and unheroic. Most smart regents don't believe all the bs "we'll let you go nicely if you just surrender blahblahblah", because history teaches a very hard lesson. Massacres are commonplace, treaties get broken over the slightest of opportunities, peacebound crusader knights get slaughtered due to their possible future military importance. In Anuire all nobles jockey for position and more power, many are willing to lie, cheat and stab you in the back to get there.
So be very careful in who you choose to trust.