The important part is getting down key actions.
For example; as Elinie, who is involved in war + diplomacy with the wicked Osoerdans they might do something like this:
Regent Actions
Espionage - Creating some nasty incident for Osoerde
Espionage - Gather some intelligence in multiple provinces (realm action)
Diplomacy - Try to enlist aid from more domains
Class Bonus
Diplomacy w/Osoerde
Lt Bonus
Wage War
Court actions
For the realm action
+ other important actions
The point here being that I get something so I can weave together all the action - otherwise it will be hard to make anything sensible out of both war moves and other actions.