International Internet law requires a minimum number of flame wars per 6 months. We're just trying to make sure our forum doesn't get shut down for violations of code. Anyways, Jon, you know perfectly well we can blame one another for almost anything if we try hard enough.
I think this particular conflict's being driven by one of the most common reasons in the world: distrust, on all sides. No one believing they can trust the other to behave 'right'. It's always interesting to me to see how closely we wind up mirroring real-world tendencies. The details of our negotiations and plans and behaviors are very different, but the fundamentals behind them are classic as hell.
As for DO's, I got mine in a day early, which is tragically better than usual for me. What's the earliest anyone's turned in a fully completed DO?