Archduchess,
Allow me to explain more completely what we are doing in Tuoren.
Since both Avanil and Alamie have declined to grant military access to the Knights of Haelyn, we are unable to garrison "Western Alamie". The forces in "Western Alamie", however, are beset by humanoid raiders and Ghaellie Sidhe marauders. The Knights will provide assistance to any realm facing these sorts of threats. In this case, the assistance will be training.
Some realms, such as Boeruine or Avanil are unlikely to want, or even need, our assistance. Other realms would benefit from our assistance, and what "Western Alamie" has asked for and been agreed to by the Knights is no different then what has been offered to all Anuire. A few other realms have expressed interest, but all except Lady Flaertas chose to do so "very" privately.
Indeed, I spent many weeks corresponding with your husband last season trying to arrange for Alamie to receive a far greater degree of assistance from the Knights of Haelyn, as you well know. The need to protect Anuirean citizens from our most dire foes is my primary concern at the moment, not the succession of various realms.
Allow me to say this, The Knights of Haelyn will not be drawn into the Alam-Tuor Civil war on either side. We hope for a peaceful resolution, in order to spare unneeded suffering among the peasants, but recognize that warfare is the flowering of Manhood and Nobility, and we would never begrudge the rights of one House to wage lawful war upon another to resolve a bone fide dispute, such as the succession in Greater Alamie.
You do not need to withdraw your words, Archduchess.