Act instead of reacting. Do instead of questioning. I've lost track of the amount of times, Bjørn has informed his players that he wont tell them what to do - they have to make the decisions (for better or worse) themselves.
"Could we do this?" - Yes, you can. But do you do it? That's what matters.
I still remember my first RoE-campaign. Little Kaven Enlien, an unknown quantity then, put in charge of a rather large host and pointed towards the gnolls in Mieres.
I made some bad calls down there. I mean, I almost lost 5.000 men and the entire campaign at one point. But I *acted*. It was made very clear that worse things would happen if I simply sat around and did nothing, so I took some decisions. Sometimes based on nothing more than a hunch and without any knowledge of the actual game mechanics.
Bjørn forces a sense of urgency to warfare. It only seems only fair - we have a week to decide actions in a game, where regents normally have an entire season to carefully plan their actions. Of course it doesn't move along at the same rate as everything else in the game. If you don't have time for it, delegate. Or write a campaign-plan for the turn - or do both.