To be honest, both my original posts were with intent to discuss.
However, I had no idea to what degree it would spill over into ingame animousity.
I can understand why people prefer to avoid this in a pbem, and will definately refrain from such loaded debates in the future, as regent at least.
Because I do feel we should be able to discuss things here in the forums, without the stake of our realms in the balance, or people feeling they have to object to the strange idea of mass communication.
Hmm... What if the Courts of Anuire were displaced to Anuire City, and all regents can send a diplomat there. The grouchy old fools would run around having meetings, holding personal grudges and make the life of the other diplomats hell.
They'd be mostly forgotten and ignored by their realms, sending their reports back home to arrive months later.
It'd be relatively harmless, but we'd all be able to post whatever and assume that we can herd all the other diplomats into a big domed room and take turns fighting to hold the speakers floor. Roman senate style. Except the topics would most of the time be which realm holds the kitchen duty this month.